DEAR LADIES
By the time you reach your mid-20s, it’s safe to say that you’ve probably had your fair share of disappointments with men. There have been a few guys for whom you have fallen; however, for some reason or another, it didn’t work out.
The odd thing about falling for someone is that for the duration of the infatuation period, he seems perfect. But, it is worth noting that “loving another person” and “infatuation” are two entirely different things.
When we are infatuated, we remain in a bubble. We make excuses for red flags, dismiss any flaws or downplay them when others (mainly those who actually care about us) bring them to our attention. We pretty much do everything we can to preserve this state of captivating desire.