Does She Want You To Approach Her? How To Tell

Approaching women can be scary. The possibility of rejection is always there. It's a fact of life that some women are not going to find you appealing physically or mentally because of something you have done.

• Maybe they have seen you acting in a way that they do not find attractive.
• Maybe they do not like the fact that you are hitting on another woman and then coming over to them.
• Maybe they just don't get a good vibe off of you.

It doesn't matter what the reason is, the chances of you succeeding with a woman when her mind is already set against you is very slim.

Therefore, if you want to avoid rejection, you need to be able to read her body language and avoid the approach altogether when it doesn't look good for you.

Note: This doesn't mean that she won't be interested in you later on, but it does mean that right now her mind has a negative view towards you and it will be very hard to change that negative view.

Three Huge Signs You Should Not Approach Her

1. She Turns Away From You

If you have ever been in an argument with somebody, you should have noticed that they turned their body slightly away from you when they no longer wanted to deal with the issue.

When a woman does not want to talk to you at all, she will turn her whole body away from you as you approach. It is an instinctual gesture of disinterest, and when you see it take it is a huge sign that you should stop your approach.

As a side note, if she turns her body away from you towards a friend, then she may just be excited that you're coming. Look at her friend's reaction or wait for the woman to turn back and look at you to see if you are coming, and you will be able to decide whether or not she is giving you the cold shoulder or she's just nervous about your approach.

2. She Gives You a Dirty Look

A dirty look is a woman's way of saying 'I don't think so!' Trust me, she is not giving you a dirty look because she is excited to talk to you.

That dirty look tells you that, for some reason, she dislikes you or she feels uncomfortable with your approach and you need to make a sharp left or right and abort the approach altogether.

3. The Friend Gives You A Dirty Look

If she is talking to somebody and that person gives you dirty look as you start to approach, then that means that she has conveyed her disinterest to her friend and her friend is acting on her behalf. Again, for some reason she does not like you or she is uncomfortable with you.

Some may argue that it just may be the friend's opinion of the person approaching, and this may be true. However, you do not want to approach somebody when they have a negative influence around them. Wait until they are alone to get a gauge on what they really feel about you.

In the end, if you see the above three signs, but you want to approach a woman anyways, by all means do so. You never know, you may be able to break through the barrier of her disinterest. But, the chances of that are very slim. You should be prepared for rejection if you are willing to go forward.